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Trying to get pregnant and kicking yourself for letting too much time go by?

Everyone can feel time pressures in life. Too much to do, not enough time to do it in but when it comes to trying to conceiving I believe that the thought that you have wasted time needs to be dealt with.

“The thought that you have wasted time has to be dealt with…”

You may feel

  • you have wasted time in previous relationships
  • you have wasted time before seeking additional support or advice if you have not fallen pregnant within a few months
  • angry, frustrated and resentful that you pursued treatments that did not bring you the results you had desired.
  • you shouldn’t have done IUI when you could have gone straight to IVF
  • you shouldn’t have listened to your friends and family who suggested to just give it a bit longer?

We live in such a speeded up age and people are in general are frantic about time.

I will encourage you to look at where you are right now. If you are constantly rushing towards the future then are you missing this present moment.

Sometimes it is important to have an outlet for your feelings, to grieve the things that have gone, to share them, to let off steam, to express how you feel in order to bring you to this present moment.

I can

  • teach you some centring techniques
  • devise a tailor-made meditation for you so that you are able to let go of resentment of the past
    to be fully in this present moment
  • help you feel optimistic about your future.
  • help you feel more able to cope with whatever comes your way.
  • Ease your frustrations and self judgement
  • save you time, save you heartache

Is conceiving much harder than you ever anticipated?

My integrated approach looks at your current physical and emotional state, while providing you with complete confidentiality and support during one of the most difficult challenges of your life.

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Is Trying to Get Pregnant Making You Feel Out of Control?

I’ve worked with hundreds of women who desperately want to have a baby.

They come to the right point in their life and if they don’t get pregnant immediately, they can’t believe it.

It may be the first time they haven’t been about to achieve the goal they’ve been going after. For the first time, they’re dealing with something out of their control.

“The amount of stress anxiety and tension that can build up within the physical body actually is detrimental to conception…”

You’ve done everything you were supposed to:

  • Studied and done well in your education,
  • Secured a good job through hard work,
  • Followed your career path with effort and determination to achieve what you want

However your body it’s not responding the way you want. It may be the first time you find yourself unable to work hard and focus to get what you want.

The amount of stress anxiety and tension that can build up within the physical body actually is in itself detrimental to conception, however one cannot help the way they are and sometimes you need guidance, advice and to be pointed in the right direction.

There may be additional services or support you need such as

  • taking some time off from a high-pressure job
  • getting a fertility massage
  • making your commute easier
  • being in nature
  • visiting an art gallery
  • getting together with friends – laughter is very healing.
  • escaping from your thoughts at the cinema
  • do something that feeds your soul and giving yourself a break

In this day and age most women are their hardest taskmasters and sometimes we need to be reminded and given permission to do nothing – you’re not wasting your time you are investing in your health

Contact me now and know

  • You have a constant companion in me
  • All the emotions you are feeling are normal
  • There are ways to make this easier
  • I have the experience and expertise to help you.

Is conceiving much harder than you ever anticipated?

My integrated approach looks at your current physical and emotional state, while providing you with complete confidentiality and support during one of the most difficult challenges of your life.

Learn More About Working Together

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